Learning to Live Green is Like Learning a new Song

By Lyndsey Young

This week, I decided to restart something I’d always enjoyed – I rejoined my singing group.
I’ve been in my local singing group for nearly 9 years now, the group meets up every week and is lots for fun, but since the sudden death of my dad two years I had stopped going, as I just couldn’t control my emotions every time we sang.

Anyway, after seeing a fabulous Twitter singalong posted up by the lovely @debsylee (they were all singing Abba songs) I realized how much I was missing my weekly ‘feel good’ session, so I made to decision to return and I’m so glad I did.

However, rather than return to sing the songs I already know, the group has a new medley of songs which I quickly need to learn in preparation for a local show and to be quite honest, they are all very new to me.

Full story at Huffington Post UK

Exercise Helps Women To Fight Cigarette Cravings, But The Effect Is Short-Lived

By Christopher Fisher, PhD

Dozens of studies on whether moderate exercise can curb the nicotine cravings of women smokers have added up to an apparent contradiction: it seems to work in short-term, well controlled lab experiments, but then fizzles out in treatment trials. A new study may explain why and help researchers devise a practical therapy.

The explanation suggested in the results of research led by David Williams, an assistant professor of community health at Brown University, is that while exercise does help improve the mood of smokers and curtail their cravings, the effect is short-lived.

“What we found is that although there is no chronic effect of exercise on cigarette cravings and affective withdrawal symptoms, there is an acute effect that diminishes over a period of several hours to 1-2 days, but can be renewed with each bout of exercise,” said Williams, first author of the study published May 11 in the journal Addictive Behaviors. “One implication for these findings is that exercise may be a useful treatment strategy, but it has to be done frequently enough and consistently enough because the effects that it has diminish over time.”

Full story at The Behavioral Medicine Report

How to find the BEST Therapist for you

By Tracey Cleantis

The first time I went to therapy, my parents chose a psychotherapist quickly (an easier decision than which mechanic they took their car to). The way they found this nutter-butter-can-of-cashews was that my first pediatrician didn’t know what to do for my nightly all-night/every night nightmares and so he sent me to a therapist. He thought she was good because of her seemingly impressive pedigree, and let me let them tell you as they told everyone who asked, “She did therapy on the Prime Minister from Israel.” Even at ten I found this bit of information troubling and logistically dubious, as we lived in a beachside suburb in Los Angeles and the Prime Minister from Israel lived in Israel.

Here are a few examples of her wacky behavior:

1. She ate cottage cheese with her mouth open during our sessions. I feel sure that her mouth full of curds gave me more nightmares rather than less.

2. She read her mail during our sessions. While I get that my 10-year-old chatter was not very stimulating, she was getting paid to listen to me and not to read what the latest edition of Readers Digest said about how to declutter your desk. Good God, do I wish I was making this stuff up.

3. I have since learned that she asked patients for rides to the airport. She never asked me for a ride, but I was only ten and I didn’t even have a bike.

I thought, as a public service of sorts, and since I am a therapist and since I write about being in therapy, it might be a good thing if I shared some thoughts about picking a therapist—should you ever find yourself in need of one—as they can be harder to find than a good mechanic.

1. Ask friends and family

Ask friends who are in therapy if they like their therapist. If they do, find out what it is they like about them and ask your friend to ask her therapist for a list of referrals. I have never gotten a good referral that way but I have given out some good referrals because friends have asked me if my therapist knew anyone for them.

If none of your friends are in therapy or if they tell you that they don’t like their therapist and how they keep going just because they don’t want to hurt the therapist’s feelings, it is best to get a referral elsewhere. I have gotten my most of my referrals by calling institutes (Jungian/Psychodynamic/Psychoanalytic) to find out what therapists were in my area. That said, you don’t want a therapist who is convenient—you want a therapist who is good. Good and convenient do not often go hand in hand. I could have a therapist that is only five minutes from my house but I believe Igor is worth the hour drive. And, I find the 60-minute drive home to be an important time to process my feelings.

Many institutes have a service in which a clinic director will do an intake and determine what therapist in the community might be a good fit for you. That is a wonderful way to find a therapist if you don’t have a referral source.

2. Shop online

While I have never found a therapist online, I do have an ad on Therapist Finder. And I do think (in the Match.com age) it is likely the way that most will first meet their therapist is on Psychology Today’s Therapy Finder. When therapist shopping I would look for therapists who are not selling themselves but rather seem to be trying to tell you about their work and their philosophy of working with patients.

3. A picture tells a story

Take a look at therapists’ pictures on Psychology Today’s Therapist Finder. Red lights for me are therapists who seem to be using a glamour shot or whose portraits seem in any way seductive. I would also steer clear of therapists who chose for their professional portrait shots of them partaking in their favorite hobby or recreational activity. If you have any doubt based on photos, I would listen to that and maybe see if you can find someone who you could easily sit across from. I am not saying your therapist needs to look like a supermodel—just if when you look at them and you feel any concern or apprehension, I would heed that intuition.

4. Gender

I think that when choosing a therapist, almost all people have an instinctive hit on gender they would prefer to work with. For me, my default therapist choice is always male which, in fact, comes out of my relationship with my parents. I don’t think there is a right or wrong when it comes to choosing which gender you prefer to work with. However, I think it can be clinically valuable to notice which gender you absolutely wouldn’t want to work with. I would make note of that and let my therapist know about my strong feelings of “no way” when considering a certain gender for a therapist.

5. Theoretical orientation

This one is REALLY tricky. There are many theoretical orientations and I certainly cannot explain them all in one single post. Here is what I can say in a huge and gross oversimplification:

* If you believe there is an unconscious motivation for your behavior, you might want to go to a psychodynamic therapist.

* If you want to change your thoughts and you think doing that will change your life and you don’t believe in an unconscious—then you might want a cognitive therapist.

* If you don’t ever want to talk about mom and dad and you only want the here and now then maybe narrative, behavioral, or solution-oriented therapies are something to consider.

* If you want to work on your family and not on just you then maybe family-oriented system therapists. Let me say again that was an enormous oversimplification. If you want to know a little more read this.

If you still have no idea at all about what orientation you might want, I would then call the referrals you found and ask them to tell you about their orientation. If they say “I am an existentialist” and leave it at that, then have them explain what that means and how you would experience that orientation in the work. Keep calling until you find someone whose style of working resonates with you.

6. Call them

When you find a therapist to call—then call them. It sounds easier than it is; I have had the numbers of therapists in my possession for weeks before I dared to call. Once on the phone I would have some questions handy. I would ask:

* Where did they go to school? The best schools don’t necessarily make for the best therapists. When asking this, I am not looking for a certain answer. I just want to know for sure that it is an accredited school and not an online coaching certificate.

* What is their specialty? I tend to be wary of people who specialize in EVERYTHING. One can’t be all things to all people.

*Have they worked with people with your issues? Share a little on the phone about your presenting issue and see how the therapist responds.

* What is their training? If they say they are trained, find out if it was a one day seminar in EMDR and/or if they took a three-hour online course in psychoanalysis– if they call themselves an expert in a modality after such a short training I would likely hang up and move on to someone with a little more experience.

* Are they licensed? If they say that they are, I would still look up their license and make sure. There are people, people I know, people I went to school with who don’t have a license and they are practicing and it makes me wackadoodledoo. I have too big of a Superego to ever trust someone who would work outside of the law. Once you are sure that they actually have a license, I would also look on the state licensing boards to see if there are any infractions against their license.

*Are they now or have they ever been in therapy? This is a BIG one. Seriously, do not, repeat do not, get into therapy with someone who hasn’t done their own work. Seeing a therapist who doesn’t do his/her own therapy is like going to a priest who has no relationship with God. . This is a big one for me. I just feel that unless one has done their own work, they are likely to have issues that create an increased chance of boundary issues, unmanaged counter-transference, and blind spots.

Before I set up the appointment, I would find out their fee and discuss if you need sliding scale or if you are planning on using insurance. If you like everything about them but their rate and is more than you can manage, I would tell them that. If they can slide no lower, then I would ask for referrals. They might know someone who works like they do at a lower fee. That said, cheap is not always better. 

If you don’t have insurance and can’t afford the fees, a good way to go can be to see an intern at a clinic. The great thing about working with interns is that you get two therapists for the price of one. You get the therapist you are working with and the supervisor who is supervising the intern. Training institutes usually have interns on staff that are available for very low rates.

For years I saw a Jungian Analyst for the embarrassingly low fee of $25 a session. He saw me at that low rate because I couldn’t afford more and because he was doing pro-bono work for the institute as a way of giving back.

7. Notice

Notice how you feel on the phone with the therapist. Nervous was how I usually felt on that first call. I rarely have had an immediate “yes” feeling when I talked to a therapist on the phone. I usually felt a little weird and awkward. You may feel differently.  Just notice how you feel on the phone and after you have made the appointment. Also, if you are doing psychodynamic therapy, you might want to write down any dreams you have had once you have made the appointment.

On your first appointment, notice how you feel when you are in the room with them. Do you feel heard when you speak? Notice how you feel in that person’s presence. Notice everything. You might not decide on the first session if the therapist is for you. It may take some time to determine if you have picked the right therapist. If you decide that it isn’t a good match, then you don’t need to come back. It is best to tell the therapist what it is you’re looking for and why he/she isn’t the best fit for you, as the therapist might have some ideas for a referral that would work for you. And sometimes that desire to not come back is motivated by some more unconscious anxieties about being in therapy. Best to discuss those, too.

Also notice if there are any red flags, any ethical/ boundary issues or cottage cheese eating that starts to arise. If there are, it might be time to pick another therapist.

Source Psychology Today

Virtual Environments Aid Stroke Rehab

By RICK NAUERT PHD Senior News Editor
Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on November 17, 2010

An innovative rehabilitation approach uses virtual environments to simulate functional tasks, allowing repetitive exercise training for stroke victims.

In a new study, Sergei V. Adamovich, Ph.D., and colleagues at the New Jersey Institute of Technology used interactive video game-based therapy to improve hand and arm function among individuals who had suffered a stroke.

“In virtual environments, individuals with arm and hand impairment practiced tasks such as reaching and touching virtual objects. They took a cup from a shelf and put it on a table, hammered a nail, and even played a virtual piano,” Adamovich said.

Even years after a stroke occurs, people with disabled limbs still sometimes show improvement with therapy. Though recent studies have shown recovery is possible, researchers aim to further improve the speed and fluidity of motor control.

In this study, 24 participants who had a stroke at least six months prior to therapy practiced with the video game for about 22 hours over a two-week period. With the aid of a robotic arm, individuals attempted increasingly difficult tasks. Adamovich and his colleagues observed that the volunteers moved their hands faster over the course of the tests.

The researchers also examined whether therapy changed the participants’ brains to improve motor functions. In ongoing trials, the authors used transcranial magnetic stimulation and functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging (fMRI) to map connections in the volunteers’ brains as they underwent rehabilitation.

“Our preliminary data suggest that, indeed, robot-assisted training in virtual reality may be beneficial for functional recovery after chronic stroke,” Adamovich said.

“Furthermore, our data imply that this recovery may be particularly due to increased functional connections between different brain regions.”

Source: Society for Neuroscience